Friday, February 12, 2010
He is telling them all that he has NO idea why I want to leave him, that the only reason he can think of is that I am in love with someone else.
So now I'm the skank.
Wednesday morning J sends an email to his brother giving him the news.
His brother replied that he was in tears, couldn't stay at work because he was so upset with the news.
J then says that he too, is upset and can't understand why I am doing this.
Have I been dreaming the last 10 years???????
has this man heard ANYTHING I have said over the last couple of years???
I am upset with J, I ask him how can he tell his brother that he doesnt know? So he says because he doesnt? *rolls eyes*
J then sends and email to the whole family asking me to explain why I am leaving him so he doesn't have to lie, and if it is someone else then I must just tell them.
If it hadn't been for his brothers extreme reaction my reply would have been something along the lines of this:
I am leaving your brother because he could not be bothered to get his drivers license, and when I ask him about it he says "I'm hoping you'll leave me if I don't"
I am leaving your brother because despite me having a protection order in place (which I should never have had to get in the first place) he still thinks its ok to hit me in front of your neice, who tries to fight him off and begs me to have YOUR BROTHER/HER FATHER arrested.
I am leaving your brother because I WILL NOT have Saige endure the same trauma that Lem has.
I am leaving your brother because he thinks its "ok" to play his Playstation all day, every day leaving me alone anyway to raise the children and do everything else.
And if any of you still think its OK to stay with your brother then you are just as fucked as he is!
If I had half the balls most people think I did then I would send that. Maybe I should just. Fuck it!
But for now I need my energy for tomorrow afternoon when I see his sister who just arrived back in the country yesterday. She now thinks I'm an adulterer. Joy. I'm now the bitch thats leaving her brother for another man!
She forgets she has a protection order against him too!
Saturday, February 6, 2010
In keeping with the current Hollywood trend of slightly unusual boyfriends- you know the vampires, shapeshifters and werewolves- you are hereby invited to talk about yours!
So is your boyfriend a little peculiar?
Does he have some tastes that make you squint in consternation?
Is he perhaps a little left of centre?
Well, all you have to do is leave a comment on this post and list the 5 strangest things your boyfriend has done- or does, and you could stand a chance of winning a Blackberry Bold 9000 Smartphone. Ts & Cs apply, and you have to be in South Africa!
Chrizanda from DSTV & Vuzu - where you can watch “The Vampire Diaries“- will then trawl the blogosphere using the links emailed to her, and choose her three favourite entries. They will get uploaded to Vuzu’s website and the public will then vote for their favourite entry!
If yours is the one picked by the public- the Blackberry Bold 9000 is yours!
So, lets hear it :)
Wednesday, February 3, 2010
Just after 4pm I did it.
Then the nerves started.....I was feeling so many things, fear, nervousness, relief?
I get home..he didn't mention anything....other then that he had been in meetings all afternoon. So obviously he didnt get it.
Today I felt literally ill the whole day.
This evening he again acts like nothing is up?
So I come out with it, ask him if he got the agreement...and he did.
I'm not going to waffle on too much, but he did get it yesterday - but thought we would speak about it last night but I never mentioned it.
He said today that he knows I am about 95% sure this is what I want, and if I tell him I want him to sign it he will???
So I did.
Monday, February 1, 2010
He has NO clue whats coming. None. He thinks everything is just fine. And that I have changed my mind.
The longer I leave it the more I think.....the more my "soft" side starts creeping back.
I need to do this.
And I need to do it now.