Tuesday, June 22, 2010

*sheepishly* waving hello :)

Well my it has been absolutely ages havent it. The last 4 months have been a rollercoaster of a ride!!

In short:
- My divorce was finalised on the 21st May.
- I have met the most wonderful man - his name is Paul and he is *almost* everything I have ever ever hoped for in a partner! He truly is my *Edward* and I am totally in love with him!

Jase has not been playing nice at all. He has left me totally financially in shit - In April even though he was still living here didnt give me a single cent.

In May he paid my maintenance into the wrong account so our joint debit orders took my maintenance money.

So that was playing two months catch up.

This month?? he has decided he now wants the kids - his ultimatum? Give him the kids or he wont pay me.

So I wont be getting my maintenance money this month either. Which means he will be arrested.

Which means he has decided to sue me for sole custody of the children. I am going to have another fight on my hands people.

5 comments:

Corey~living and loving said...

oh girl! so good to "see" you, but wow what a mess.

I'm pleased you are finding joy though. you deserve it.

totally cooked said...

bless him ;) what a doos

congratulations on the rest

such courage - so much of proud

A Daft Scots Lass said...

Welcome back...

He won't get custody of the kids. He never did anything for them ever!

Urgh! Some men have no fucking clue...

Wenchy said...

J is an idiot. Any man who cannot understand that the money is for HIS KIDS and not for your fun, is an idiot.

I am so glad you left him. I am very proud of you.

I wonder if J has any idea how much is costs to sue for custody?

Wenchy said...

J is an idiot. Any man who cannot understand that the money is for HIS KIDS and not for your fun, is an idiot.

I am so glad you left him. I am very proud of you.

I wonder if J has any idea how much is costs to sue for custody?