Tuesday, December 7, 2010

He still hasnt seen the girls.

From the week before the court case. That was well over a month ago! He has not called, or seen them. Even for Saige's Christmas concert he was a complete No-Show.

I honestly can not believe this from him. The girls have cried real tears for him and I have nothing to tell them.

Well - I confronted him about it last week. Apparantly he has been going through a "tough time". Excuse me while I snort=laugh! The silly shit has NO idea what a tough time is!

But - he asked if he could take the girls this weekend.
His older sister is out from California for the month, she hasnt been here for 7 years...........my first instinct was to yell NO its MY weekend (I've been keeping track) but I took a step back and thought for the girls it would be the right thing to let them go. He will have them from Friday to Tuesday......and I am panicking a bit..never been without them for that long...........

It is hard to just let him waltz back in to their life when he has been out of it for so long...I wonder if he will keep it up and not just blow in and out as he feels like it.


Hayley said...

Firstly, thanks so much for popping by my blog...I seriously love, love finding new blogs...especially South African blogs :-)

And secondly...haven't had a chance to read all your posts...so not sure of all the details, but I am so sorry you are going through all of this. It cannot be nice at all.

Will be back :-)

Jenty said...

Hope he is proper with them this weekend (in Wenchy's words)

cat said...

Good luck for the weekend! Gosh , it must be tough. (I am the mom of the little girl you commneted on Jenty's photo blog.