Things have reached a new level of "low"
Although in saying that my decision has been made *that* much easier for me.
You know when you think that a person can not be nastier or uglier then they have been in the past and they just completely suprise you be sinking even lower?
J has completely and utterly crushed me this week. I have nothing left. I'm finished.
* He's taken my cell phone away.
* Refused to go to my year end function as he doesnt want to be seen with a "fat miserable bitch"
* I have had to find a lift to my function as he won't let me use the car.
* He has taken all the bank cards as they are in "his" name. The fact that they are "joint" accounts obviously means nothing right?
* He has disconnected the DSTV and Internet line at home.
* Threatened to resign and relocate as not to have to pay me maintenance.
And I quote:
"I’ve just checked my retirement fund, I have enough to hang around for 3 months giving you R15 000, and then spending 6 months to a year backpacking and doing odd jobs in Europe or the US…even South America…I’m just saying...gotta remember that I will have more freedom to do what I want, and it wouldn’t be fair to tell me don’t go see the world if it’s what I want to do …. Just be careful how hardball you want to play, I probably got bigger balls and a couple more in my court…but I’m willing to play by whatever rules you make"
"I was willing to make this as easy as possible…really was, now u got me seriously thinking about resigning and relocating even…cos I can’t see myself even living in JHB with you here…'
One thing has completely destroyed me
He told me he had a conversation with Lemon over the weekend and it was very clear that she despises me.
Oh and "You may get the girls now I am so useless it wont take him long to get them taken away from me"
My lawyer isnt coming back to me *grrr* so if anyone knows of one - pls mail me?