So - lol - things are still a tad crazy for me my end. I haven't posted as I needed to make a few final decisions and I wanted to make them un-jaded...lol is that even a word?
J has come up with a solution to save our Marriage!!!! *giggle*
Wanna hear it?
Well - he thinks I am very stressed due to my job - the rush in the mornings to drop everyone off an get to work on time. The rush in the afternoon to get everyone picked up on time. The rush in the evenings to get everything done on time and the kids to bed at a reasonable time. The fact that I REALLY want to get a business started but don't have the time.
So?? His solution is for me to resign and be a stay-at-home-trying-to-start-a-business mom !!
Yaaay so I get to do all the things I am doing now PLUS try get my business going!
And he ups his game how???????
Haven't quite figured that out yet! haha
So he has a solution! yay! Does that solution involve HIM becoming more involved in our families activities or helping me more with the kids etc? Noooo if anything it just gives him license to do even less around here!
He seems sincere when he believes our marriage can be saved and he really does not understand why I am not taking him up on his offer.
Sorry bud, the offers about 5 years to late!!
THEN there is the Maintenance issue - friends I am in for a fight, pls send all the extra energy you can - I'm going to need it!